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Half In Love , Half In Syllabus

So Hey! Guys , I am Preeti . A girl who wants to be a entrepreneur , content creator , writer , public speaker , model , auditor , teacher and a god favourite child in this life.



Today I want to share my perspective about teenage love and academics . This is a such kind of topic , we often don't discuss . But it is a very important part of our life which teaches a lot about life. 


Why do we feel attracted to someone ?


We feel attracted someone because we are living beings . Our brain , heart , and environment  all team up to make that person feel "special" to us . It's a good sign when you see that you are attracted to someone because this shows that you have emotions. We all are human being , we shouldn't feel insecure for liking someone. We're social and emotional beings . So , it's natural to feel drawn to people . 



How should we deal with it ? 

Sometimes liking someone feels like we are compromising  with our goals . We may end up procrastinating the things that should be our priority. So , your big sister advice is that in this situation we need to find  a balance between your goal and your love life . As a teenager , our first priority should be our goals . Balance is important -- because love should add value to our life , not take away what truly matters.


Boundaries in teenage love 

. Just because you like someone doesn't mean you have to be available 24/7 . We should choose when it's time for study , their should be no distractions.

A healthy teenage bond never forces you to act , speak or commit to things you' re not ready for.

On times , remind yourself that this phase will teach you to deal with emotions at high and low, but your studies build the foundation of your future.

We should not fall for the traps what if or we're daydreaming about the situations that never happened. It gave us dopamine but in long run it only  hurts our emotions. So , control over emotions is important. 



In conclusion, 
I would suggest that we should prioritize things when you feel that you are stuck in middle. Obviously, we cannot underestimate our  future because of five minutes dopamine.



If you enjoyed reading this blog ,  you might also love my other posts .. do take a look at them ! And don't forget to share your perspective in the comments. What are your thoughts on teenage love and academics ? I would love to hear from you. 🫶


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  1. Anonymous12:52 PM GMT+5:30

    Great work🔥🔥 keep it up 👍

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    ohh...well done ! Preeti...I'm proud of you ..keep posting I'm waiting for your blogs...

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